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UK Meet 2014 part 2 of 2

13/6/2014

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Red jacket and flowery red shirt donned, I collected my bucks fizz in the bar. How retro, I thought, and took my place for the gala dinner. I was the Liam sandwich between the Charlie Cochrane and Elin Gregory pieces of artisan bread.
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As we started eating, Eddie began to sing and confidently walked among the our tables. I was pleased this worked as he sang and we ate. I had briefed him to not be too rude as I’m aware the US sense of humor is quite different from the British sense of humour, but once Eddie checked, he was a bit more risqué with the lyrics he sang.

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Me, wearing *that red jacket* and Eddie, the fabulous drag artist for the night. Never before have I been so massively upstaged in a photo ;-)
The choir were amazing, and as I stood by the door, I felt myself welling up with tears. I am liable to a bit of a cry, I am aware of this fact. Maybe it was seeing the evening  come together, maybe it was Your Song by Elton John or Run by Leona Lewis, maybe it was the sad news I’d had on Thursday and the week before? Who knows, but I cried.

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The wonderful Songbirds choir
I met the *surprise* in the lobby and showed them to a changing room: Alex, Fabio and Jason were the most personable Butlers in the Buff I’d ever met. I deliberately kept them a surprise and it was worth it to see people’s faces when they saw the three almost naked men in the bar. Magic. They were great sports and posed for pictures with me.

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The wonderful Butlers in the Buff for the night. Left to right: Fabio, Alex and Jason. Such fun! Oh, and *that red jacket* of course!
I was, at first, a bit nervous about MCing, prize giving and random number selecting, but once I got into it, I actually really enjoyed myself. Could you tell? I think the random number machine will have to be a feature of every UK Meet from now on! It was a way to thank all the volunteers who help us out on the day, and before the UK Meet, without whom we wouldn’t be able to do it. The random prizes were just a bit of fun, so hope they were.

Despite Patrick Darcy threatening to drag me to a night club later, I met him in the bar, well ensconced with some other delegates. I took my leave and returned to the womb like place that is Stars Hollow. I managed one episode of Gilmore girls before I fell asleep.

Sunday 8 June

I woke to another episode of Gilmore girls in bed. I felt I needed some more womb like respite.

Stuffed full of another enormous breakfast, at which I gave a master class on how to make the *perfect* cup and pot of tea to the non-British delegates on the table, I made my way to the first panel. I may well blog about how to make tea properly, since it's something I'm so *into* and is so very British, I'm told.

Avoiding Your Mid-Novel Crisis was a great panel – interesting to see how people split between plotters and pantsers and those who write all over the place, and those who write in a linear way. Jordan Castillo Price and Val Hughes worked well together, giving differnt perspectives to the issues. Val Hughes’ story about a manuscript she’d been submitted that included *something happens* in its midst made me smile. Hands up, I write that all the time, if I can’t work out what needs to happen, but I always put a xxxx next to it, so I can find and replace before it goes beyond my eyes. Smug or organised, you decide?

The Insider Speak panel was a great introduction to newly contracted authors about what to expect as their input to the cover and how the editing process works. It was the first time I'd met TJ Masters in person. It isn’t realistic to expect a cover designer to read your book, but think about the themes, one iconic image that summarises your book, rather than trying to put *the whole book* on the cover.

The Contracts panel scared the life out of me. Jo Myles' and Clare London's wise words were very helpful *checks note book*. Thankfully, I now know the difference between selling your rights and granting your rights. The thing to remember about negotiating is that you’re doing it with another human being, just like you are, and it’s about working out a way you two can work together. That’s not too scary is it? K J Charles was amazing, and although she says she's not a lawyer, she certainly knows contracts inside out. 

Aleksandr Voinov gave a great keynote speech about making assumptions about people’s gender, sexuality etc based on what they look like. If someone presents themselves as male, they are to be referred to as male. Same if they self identify as gender queer, they are to be referred to in this way. Pretty simple when you put it like that isn’t it?

The panel to help us plan UK Meet 2015 was really useful, and heartening to hear so much positive feedback from everyone. It’s an amazing feeling to see it all come together after a year of work from the organisers and other helpers.

After some goodbyes – sorry if I missed you, but my well had run dry by that point - I got the 16.30 train from Bristol to London.

Talking to authors, bloggers, readers had, as it always seems to, really inspired me to write more. For the whole journey back to Epping Forest, I listed ideas for new stories and brainstormed a few of them in more detail. I am aiming to write another 2-3 novels before December 2014, and extend a novella by about 20k. That’s first drafts of the novels by the way. I may be able to do this, I may not be able to do this, because life will happen, because I might have writers block, and if that’s the case I am fine with that; I will simply go back to Stars Hollow or read some more Valley of the Dolls style books to entertain and unwind my brain. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

Did you go to UK Meet 2014? How was it for you? I’d love to hear from you.

Until next time, Liam Livings xx

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HJ
14/6/2014 06:26:41 pm

Yes, I did go to the Meet and thoroughly enjoyed it! (I'm Helena Justin on Facebook.) Together with your fellow organisers you did a great job Liam, and your bookings for Saturday night were inspired. I loved your red jacket, and your MCing was excellent, as was the choice of prize-winners. I don't know what has happened to make you unhappy, but you did a very good job of putting on a good face and continuing regardless.

Thank you for a wonderful weekend!

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liamlivings@gmail.com
14/6/2014 08:29:49 pm

Hi HJ, twas lovely to meet you in person at the Meet. I'm glad you enjoyed it. We made a good team. I did enjoy the ents throughout the weekend I must say.
I've had 2 recent sad things which I will in a few weeks blog about when they're a bit less close & strong. I really wanted to attend & enjoy the Meet so I did my best w a brave face, retreating to my room & Stars Hollow when needed. :-)

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Johanna
15/6/2014 10:10:42 pm

I'm still fondly thinking of your master-class-of-tea-making moment over our breakfast, Liam. ;-) Your enthusiasm sure was catching and made me hope that we'll have a Liam Livings Tea Workshop in the program next year. :-)

Thank you so much for all the hard work you and the team have done to make the UK meet such a friendly, laid back, lovely get-together. I can only imagine the amount of work it requires. Thank you for making it possible for us attendees to discuss books, meet old friends and make new ones in such comfortable and joyful atmosphere. You guys rock. :-)

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Liam Livings
16/6/2014 08:28:13 pm

Hi Johanna,
I am definitely doing a blog masterclass about making the *perfect* cup of tea. There's so much bad tea making going on, it makes me shudder!
I am so pleased it was friendly, laid back get-together, that's exactly what we aimed for it to be. Liam :-)

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Jan
16/6/2014 12:14:10 am

I was another lucky and very happy attendee. The whole event was fantastic, from the welcome in the lobby, the hotel staff, the Friday evening food and entertainment, well the list just goes on and on. This whole group of people are like the family you choose, we are all different but all valuable within 'our' community.
Thank you for helping to create such a wonderful atmosphere.
HUGS

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Liam Livings
16/6/2014 08:29:41 pm

Hi Jan,
"The whole group of people are like the family you choose, we are all different but all valuable within 'our' community."
That is exactly the event we wanted it to be. I am so pleased you enjoyed it!
Hugs back, Liam :-)

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Lane Swift link
16/6/2014 03:31:29 am

Liam! I had a fantastic time at my first UK Meet and it was thanks to the thoughtful planning and execution from all the organisers and volunteers. I'll admit, I was really nervous to be around so many 'big names' but by Saturday evening all the nerves were gone and I was able to completely relax and enjoy myself.
You were a great host not just Saturday night, but throughout the weekend. The fact you and the crew made sure everything ran on schedule, that you were able to make sure everyone got heard, that everyone's voices carried equal weight -- those are real achievements.
It took me a week of being back to really find my mojo again, for one reason and another, but like you I came home inspired and have big plans now. Perhaps not two novels before the end of the year though!
I'm really looking forward to next year, and the random number generator. That was a lot of fun. ;)
(Oh, and I finished 'Wonder', after sobbing my eyes out several times over. Now I've bought the paperback for my kids to read.)

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Liam Livings
16/6/2014 08:32:17 pm

Hi Lane,
No need to be nervous at all. I'm so pleased we put you at ease. It makes me go all fuzzy inside to read your comments about ensuring everyone's voices carried equal weight - that's what we do try to achieve with UK Meet.
That random number generator was indeed, such fun!
I told you you'd cry at Wonder. Give The Fault In Our Stars a go - I almost cried my contact lenses out with that one! :-)

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Beverley Jansen link
17/6/2014 12:25:47 am

Liam you were a wonderful MC and hid your sadness really well. It was my first UKMeet, in fact my first convention ever. I cannot think of anything that would have made it better for me. I didn't want to leave the lovely, hugging and tolerant bubble on Monday, and rejoin the slightly harsher world. You, Charlie, Clare, Jo and Jamie are heroes in my eyes.

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Liam Livings
18/6/2014 12:54:25 am

Thank you, Beverley. It certainly was a nice bubble wasn't it? *blushing* :-)

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Mara Ismine link
17/6/2014 04:00:50 am

Hi Liam, you looked wonderful all weekend, as always, and I didn't spot your hidden sadness. The choir and Aleks both reduced me to tears, as well. Long may the UK Meet be a Safe Place for all of us to be ourselves.
You all do such a wonderful job organising everything.
See you next year, Mara

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Liam Livings
18/6/2014 12:55:21 am

Hi Mara,
we all want the UK Meet to stay a safe place for everyone to be themselves. Liam :-)

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