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Why I didn't read 50 Shades of Grey and went retro instead with Lace and Valley of the Dolls - part 1

18/3/2013

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In case you’ve been living under a rock for the last twelve months, so there was this book which everyone read and raved about you see, it was called 50 Shades of Grey. I was at an airport last summer and a member of security staff asked a woman to empty her hand luggage. This revealed a well thumbed copy of 50 Shades, he removed it, shook it a bit (presumably to show it didn’t contain anything dodgy or illegal) looked at me, rolled his eyes and said, like we were best friends: ‘Every woman’s hand luggage I’ve checked this summer has one of these in it. Every single one,’ before replacing it in her bag. Later, I perused the shelves of the bookshop, and noticed a very attractively covered book called Lace, by Shirley Conran, and thought nothing more of it, except, I wonder if she’s anything to do with Terence Conran.

I’d had so many women recommend me to read 50 Shades: colleagues, cousins, family friends, neighbours, I thought there must be something in this. A friend explained this obsession as a peculiarly British thing, ‘It can only be one thing at a time for us Brits: one book, one film, one song. Then the next one comes along, and it’s just that and only that for the next few months.’ I do think there’s something to that theory, although I’d extend it to more than just Britain.

Normally I’m quite resistant to this sort of hype/obsession, as I normally think it can’t really be as good as everyone thinks – I didn’t see Avatar until it came on TV and then, from the comfort of my own sofa, thought yeah, that was good, not amazing, but good. Anyway, back to 50 Shades...so I read an article in GQ magazine, which included an extract, which had a disclaimer at the start: ‘This is not a pastiche, this is an actual extract of the book.’ Had it not included the disclaimer I would have thought they were mocking it.

I’m not one to yuck someone else’s yum, (different strokes for different folks and all that) and it has to be said, whatever E L James did, worked, so fair play to her. But after reading that extract, I knew, as certainly as I’ve ever known anything, there was no way I would enjoy reading the whole book. So I didn’t. After some research, I traced this genre of fiction right back to the mother ship: Jacqueline Suranne’s Valley of the Dolls, and a more recent addition, Shirley Conran’s Lace. And then I thought I should have bought that book at the airport all those weeks ago.

No matter, I tracked down copies of both books and settled in for a fantastic few weeks with them.
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Lace, by Shirley Conran (who was married to Terence the designer Conran by the way) was reissued in 2012 on its thirtieth year since being originally published, and it’s as fresh and relevant now as it was then. Conran wrote it to teach a generation of women about sex through their mothers reading it, and banning them from reading it. Just think about Relax, by Frankie Goes to Hollywood being banned by Radio 1, it went straight to number one. There really is no such thing as bad publicity!

It follows the lives of four friends, Maxine, Pagan, Judy and Kate, starting as they meet at a Swiss finishing school, through jobs as magazine publishers, interior designers, PRs, periods of alcoholism, changes of husbands, lovers (and rest assured, there’s plenty of sex including a scene involving a goldfish). There is also another woman, Lili whose identity is unclear at the start, apart from an implied link with one of the other four women. Lili’s upbringing includes modelling, a depressingly realistic description of her being groomed and progressing to the pornographic film industry, and eventually more mainstream films.

I just couldn’t wait to read about each of the women’s next lover, job, challenge, or find out what this Lili had to do with them all. The easy style of writing really draws you through the story, to such an extent I found myself laying in cold bath water, skin wrinkled like a prune, on more than a few occasions.

The reason I stuck with this, and knew I could, was because behind the sex, jobs, lovers etc, the thing which held the book together was the strong friendships which bind the women together over the decades. And in my writing, that’s what interests me – long term friends sticking with each other.

Yes, they’re all ultimately successful in whatever their endeavour is, but it’s not just a simple ‘I thought about working in the publishing industry, and before I knew it I was the editor of Vogue, which was nice.’ No, it includes the ups and downs, knock backs and surprises we all encounter in real life.

In addition, these women become successful without the help of men, which is why it must have been so refreshing in 1982, and is still so relevant in 2013. Even now it’s so refreshing for a book’s message about a happy ending not to revolve around marriage, but about friends who’ll stick with you through whatever life throws up at you. And for me, that is what made this much more interesting and contemporary than just a ‘bonkbuster’ with an abundance of sex scenes and a rich hero.

Have any of you read Lace, I’d love to hear what you thought about it. Or have you read 50 Shades, and completely disagree with me?

Until next time

Liam x

5 Comments
HJ
18/3/2013 06:52:48 am

I had a similar experience to you - I saw an extract from 50 Shades and thought - no way, you have to be kidding. Added to the resistance I already felt because of the hype, this meant I will never read it.

I read bits of Lace a very long time ago, and found it very educational! The reason I didn't read it all was that it was someone else's book, and I could only read it when she wasn't reading it, plus we were only in the same place for a weekend. I didn't have the nerve to buy myself a copy! Oh, he joys of anonymous purchasing over the internet! - or even better, via an ereader.

I'm curious as to how you know that Lace is the precursor of 50 Shades? Or formed that view?

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Liam Livings
18/3/2013 07:58:36 pm

Hi HJ,

It's nice to see I'm not the only one who resisted the hype and didn't read it!

If you read bits of Lace years ago, perhaps it's time to treat yourself to an anonymous internet purchase of it.

Like most things, I'm sure Lace's origins are up for debate, but for me, there were a couple of blogs which reviewed Lace, in a 'this is how erotic fiction should be' approach, as well as an interview with Conran on the Stylist.co.uk website which starts, 'Before 50 Shades was steaming up commuter Kindles, before Jilly Cooper, even, Shirley Conran gave us the gift of Lace, the original bonkbuster par excellence.'

Liam x

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Clare London link
18/3/2013 10:23:06 pm

I remember reading the excerpt of 50S and being startled how it was in present tense. Personally, I don't usually like that, and I knew I wouldn't stick 3 books of it, so I passed :). Lace I adored, I remember the wit and melodrama of it, and the VERY clever way it weaved in together the 5 women. It was a real pageturner for me. I read it years ago and I've read plenty of other similar plots since then, so the reveal isn't as stunning for me now, but I knew you'd like it :)

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Majid Rahman
23/10/2020 05:20:52 am

Clare, remember the scene between judy and griffin? where she made him powerless and punished him?

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Liam Livings
19/3/2013 03:15:30 am

Very true Clare - the way Lace weaves the stories together, going back in time to re-tell each woman's story fully, is effortless to read, and also very cleverly written.
I too find reading in the present tense can be a bit jarring.

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